Need Some Space? Not Sure About Divorce?
Perhaps our full Divorce Mediation Services aren’t right for you. Maybe you’re just thinking about separating. Maybe you need some time and space to “figure things out.” Or you don’t think you can afford to get a divorce right now.
There’s no question that talking about separation and divorce is stressful. Managing your issues and looking forward is a tough conversation even when you are getting along. Sometimes, it may be better to deal with the minimum number of topics to set up a separation. Perhaps if you can reduce the number of topics to the barest minimum, you can give yourself some space to let emotions cool and conversations to become more productive.
Even if you’re only separating from your spouse, there are a number of questions you’ll want to think about:
- Do we need a written separation agreement to separate? How much detail do we need?
- Will we live “separately” but in the same house? Can we do an “in house separation”?
- If we live in separate homes, can we afford the expenses of a second home?
- How will the mortgages or rents be paid? Who will maintain the house and who will pay for it?
- How can we be sure the children are taken care of? When will each parent be with the children?
- Do we want to keep our assets jointly or separately? If some of our assets continue to be jointly owned, who’s going to manage our assets?
- What will we do with our paychecks? How will we cover the expenses? What credit cards will we each use?
All of these questions are important. But you and your spouse may have very different ideas on how they should be resolved. During separation mediation at Resolution Point, the right questions are asked, and we will explore a level of detail that’s appropriate for your situation. If it appears a written separation agreement is needed, we’ll help you create it.
Resolution Point Certified Divorce Financial Analysts™
If there is no equity in the house or “negative equity” because you owe more than its market value today, do you have the resources to pay for a second home? At Resolution Point, you’ll find out if you can afford a second residence before you commit to one. Whether you’re considering a divorce or separation, your separate living arrangements are often the first issue that needs discussion. And with Resolution Point’s Certified Divorce Financial Analysts™, you get a practical and comprehensive look at your different options.
Separation Mediation Sessions
If a final divorce is not your immediate goal, we can still help you identify issues and topics that need to be discussed as they relate to your separation and, along the way, we may even help reduce antagonism. Topics we may cover include:
- living arrangements
- parenting during the interim situation
- support needed for the spouses and for the children
Just like a mediation for a full divorce, we’ll have an orientation session and move through the topics relevant to your situation in a logical order and in a safe environment. We’ll talk about property separation only as much as necessary to handle the separation.
To learn more about Resolution Point’s separation mediation orientation session and the general organization of family mediation sessions, see Mediation Steps.
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Resolution Point offers remote mediation services at no extra charge when parties can’t be in the same room due to schedules or other conflicts:
- ▪ 4-way phone conference calling
- ▪ Video conferencing
- ▪ Internet connectivity which allows parties to watch everything remotely on their computer screen as it’s happening in our office.
WHAT OTHERS SAY
“Saving time and money are not the most important reasons to consider mediation. The main reason to consider mediation is to preserve a civil and even friendly relationship between two people who want to go their own ways but who don’t want to be enemies for life. Resolution Point works with couples to find areas of agreement and identify common interests, especially those involving children. Where the interests of husband and wife conflict as they inevitably will, Danny is excellent at helping couples understand their options so they can arrive at a middle ground that they can both live with. I highly recommend mediation and using Resolution Point.”